We live in a culture and age that is, by most people’s standards, privileged. We really do have so much for which to be grateful. It’s overwhelming, almost.
And yet, Thanksgiving, like other festivals or holidays, can evoke conflicting emotions in us. Finding gratitude in one’s heart can be difficult when you are having a particularly hard time, or if previous years’ Thanksgivings have been trying, Or when others seem to have, be, or do so much in relation to us. Or when we feel compelled to do things we’d rather not do.
It is possible to turn our challenges around, though. Let me tell you a story.
In my life, Saturday was yoga-blanket-washing day. Forty-five cotton blankets take quite awhile to wash and dry, even at a commercial
laundromat where there are jumbo machines. A few years ago I blew out my home dryer in the process of washing about ten blankets, so I started to go to the laundromat instead.
I was feeling a little sorry for myself having to do this on a holiday weekend. And it was hard work. The dryers only run for four minutes at a time and I had about ten of them going, so I constantly was plugging quarters for about two hours. Maneuvering, folding, and repacking them into one of three hockey bags was hot and cardiovascularly effective – my heart rate was in the 140 – 150 range a good part of the time.
At first the laundromat was empty. But over the course of the afternoon many people came and went. Some didn’t have their own machines. Others’ home machines had broken down. A couple of people came in to wash big comforters and sleeping bags.
The open door to the corridor to the bathroom had a sign indicating that the bathroom was closed due to people making a mess and drinking alcohol in there. I found the toilet open and usable, but the fact that people spend their leisure time doing laundry and, at the same time, drinking or getting sick or vandalizing the bathroom, evoked a huge sense of compassion in me. We all are human and that scenario could play out in the lives of any of us.
I also felt a surge of gratitude come over me. First, how fortunate I am to have home laundry facilities, something I largely take for granted. Secondly, grateful that I have yoga blankets to offer students for their use when they practice yoga with me, and that I could afford to buy them. Thirdly, that people want to spend time learning about yoga from me. Fourthly, that my life circumstances lead me to pursue yoga as a practice and a vocation and fifthly, that my family wholeheartedly supports me in the endeavor. Additionally, that I made a seemingly mundane and yet profound connection with others in that laundromat. And finally, that someone chooses to run a laundromat; certainly not a sexy or hugely lucrative endeavor. I could go on, but I’m sure you get my drift.
There are more weighty and appealing gratitude stories out (Maeve Binchy novels and Chicken Soup for the Soul books come to mind), but I wanted to share a surprising challenge-turned-gratitude event from my humble day. When did you feel thankful today? Was it a surprise to you?
I’ve been practicing yoga, sometimes more fervently than others, for 35 years, and teaching it for over fifteen of those years. In 2008, I came to the realization that my true passion lay in using yoga therapeutically, that is to apply the teachings and practices of yoga when working with individual clients to empower them to progress toward improved health and well-being. I investigated various ways to learn more and develop competency. I embarked on two different and fairly major complementary trainings and by 2010, both were complete. Nevertheless, I find myself continuously seeking out more knowledge and opportunities to practice and I rather doubt that my lifelong learning will cease soon, if ever.
“yoga therapists” out there falls more in the “chance” and “general” categories.
ss’ offerings are specifically customized to the individuals within it. In other words, it is the individual who is receiving the yoga therapy, not the disease condition being treated.
atanjali) which include the educational teachings of yama and niyama (guidelines for living with self and others), asana (intelligently applied postures), pranayama (control of energy using breath), pratyahara (withdrawal of the consciousness from external senses), dharana, dhyana, and samadhi (three stages of concentration). Also included are the application of meditation, textual study, spiritual or psychological counseling, chanting, imagery, prayer, and ritual to meet the needs of the individual. The whol
e field of ayurvedic (Traditional Indian) medicine also informs yoga therapy.
addressing equally the complex needs of highly-driven athletes and bedridden invalids, happy people and sad people, the disenfranchised, destitute and compromised as well as the privileged and rich. Some yoga therapists specialize more with a certain population or type of issue. However, overall, it is part of yoga therapist’s skill set to determine how best to work with individuals to unearth the ways in which they are suffering, explore how their constitution and life circumstances are involved, and together develop and enact a yoga-based plan for moving forward i
n a way that will help them to GROW through life joyfully.